You do that by creating a new association with this day. Changing how you think about things that normally cause you pain.
If you grieving the loss of your mom, whether from death or because the relationship was never safe, give yourself the things you wished your mother could. You can mother yourself, give yourself the unconditional love you crave or miss. Tell yourself, how proud you are of yourself, reflect on how wonderful you really are, give yourself what you wish your mother could.
- Write yourself a letter as if you are your own mother, write everything you wished you heard from her. Give yourself that gift - YOU are worth it.
You are positioning yourself into the energy of abundance. Why would the universe send you more, if you aren't being gracious with what it's already sent you, even compliments.
When someone says you did a great job, don't go pointing out the flaws in it. When they say your hair looks nice, don't say I need my highlights done, Say, "thank you" & believe them. You did do a great job & your hair looks amazing.
Be open to receiving, don't block the positive.
Welcoming abundance with Feng Shui, Red envelopes, & Coins.
One such activity is getting a red envelope, placing eight coins in the highest denomination of the currency you use and putting it under the mat on your front door. This is to welcome abundance and prosperity.
Are you wondering if I did it? You know I did.
Here is a real-life story from a friend and customer, Nancy who gave me permission to share her and her son's story. A few years ago, I had gone digging for quartz crystals in Arkansas. I gave out a few of those crystals to a few people, Nancy was one of them. Here is the message she sent me: "I have to share with you what a gift that wee crystal that you gave me a while back has been for me & my oldest!! Crazy guy goes & buys a Hearse from a funeral home that he does business...
You don't need to whiter teeth, longer or shorter hair, more money, more education, less cellulite, YOU are fine, just as you are. You are ready to start walking towards the thing you want.
If you've been waiting to "FIX" yourself, consider yourself FIXED. You are the way you're meant to be right now, that doesn't mean you can't and won't evolve, improve, and change, but that's the stuff you do while you're DOING the things.
You are enough just as you are right now. Life is SHORT! You better do what's in your heart while you can because one day you won't have the option.